Extraordinary Relationships
Transform polite & efficient Relating into Premium Intimacy.
Welcome to your great love story.
You have done the couple’s counselling, workshops, retreats, self-help books and you are ready to be held in a premium container where your investment in your nervous system repair & erotic relational blueprint can meet in harmony.
I show long term couple’s how to create intimacy so palpable-every touch, laugh, look keeps people wondering if you are newlyweds.
Most couple’s don’t fall apart
suddenly-they drift.
Picture This:
You walk into a dinner party with your partner.
It’s supposed to be relaxing.
But, something feels off.
You’re polite, but you’re not close.
You stay on opposite sides of the room.
She talks to the other women.
He talks about work or boasts about his elite athlete daughter because it’s easier than discussing anything real.
When you leave, someone whispers.
“Are they ok?”
You hate people wondering about your relationships status.
As you leave you find relief in remembering that you had sex 2 nights ago, so you are “off the hook” for tonight.
This is what distance actually looks like. It doesn’t have to be dramatic. It can be quiet.
Functional even AND lonely.
You love each other…
but your connection hasn’t adjusted to your nervous system repair & an upgraded erotic relational blueprint.
Why This happens?
Emotional & sexual disconnect usually comes from:
Unspoken resentments
parenting & career stress
communication breakdowns
nervous system overwhelm
nervous system regulation that is adjusting to getting turned on by trust & presence
avoidance patterns
misattuned intimacy
feeling unseen, unheard, or unsupported
never being taught how to repair properly
chasing the dopamine highs of “breakthroughs” without actually integrating what you have learned into everyday real life moments
This is actually common in modern relationships & the quick fix promises that last for awhile and then the pattern continues. Are you willing to be held in a container where you can relax and experience a new level of intimacy?
What do I do
(Real, practical intimacy “work”)
3. Intimacy & Sexuality work , (Safe, Clear, Real)
You learn how to:
rebuild desire without expectations & pressure
make explicit requests
Communicate truthfully
Rest in Presence & trust over sexual urgency & outcome of an orgasm
repair trust around intimacy
understand each other’s arousal patterns
bring playfulness & spontaneity back
Example
A couple that I worked with struggled with resentments blocking intimacy. I actually heard her say that she “hated him”
She didn’t actually hate him, but she hated feeling misunderstood & therefore, unsafe.
During an 8 hour intensive, I guided them through an intimacy exercise that included making specific doable requests for touch & closeness.
This created the safety, clarity and intimacy that was buried under resentments.
4. Communication that Lands
You learn:
structured dialogue tools
repair steps after conflict
how to make explicit requests
how to stay present instead of defensive
how to listen without shutting down
How to break cycles of criticism and avoidance
Example
In one session I supported a husband to reveal something he had been hiding from his wife. My nervous system supported him to feel brave enough to do it.
He feared his wife’s anger and that the reveal would push her away. I coached them both through it- it was sticky at times but my regulated nervous system co-regulated them through it. Instead of rupturing the connection-the truth deepened it.
Nervous System Repair: You learn HOW to:
settle reactivity
stay present during conflict
stop shutting down or avoiding hard conversations
soften your body (defences) so your partner feels safe
use breath & grounding techniques when your system spikes
Become practiced at resting in regulation instead of mistaking activation of your nervous system for “chemistry”
Example:
A husband that I was working with was panicking internally whenever his wife talked about parenting stress. He felt like nothing he did , was enough & this was how he felt with his father as a child. I taught him how to regulate in the moment-slow breathing, soften his body, stay present & grounded.
This one shift changed the tone, teamwork, and their intimacy.
2. Subconscious Repatterning
We uncover the beliefs driving your reactions:
I’m not enough
I’m not important
If I open up, I will be rejected
Connection isn’t safe
Then we repattern them through:
*parts integration
*emotional repatterning
*guided subconscious reprogramming
*somatic release
*Corrective relational experiences
Example
My client believed that parts of her identity were “dark, unwanted, too much” Essentially, that something was wrong with her.
Through integration work she said
“Those parts ended up being the parts that called in my current life”
She is now married with a husband and daughter she deeply cherishes.
Areas of Expertise
Single men and women choosing to elevate their intimacy game
Long term couple’s
Revolutionary Modalities
What Is Tantra?
Tantra is ancient wisdom & specific techniques that support heart connection.
In it’s truest essence, Tantra is the experience of Oneness with another. Leaders -like myself- initiated in Tantra curate heart-centred experiences where intimacy becomes palpable-every touch, breath, laugh, look is an experience of love that you can feel & become practiced at recreating through the everyday moments of life together.
In practice, it becomes a clear conversation between you & your partner’s nervous system that communicates safety, trust, openness & love.
Desire emerges from trust & safety not the urgency of nervous system activation.
Sexual energy circulates throughout the whole body and is connected to the heart.
Sex is one expression of your cultivated intimacy through your everyday moments-not the only source of connection.
Example:
I was working with a man who wanted to uplevel his intimacy mastery. His relationships never lasted longer than 4 months-despite a desire for real, lasting love.
In our work together, I was his “pseudo” authentic relating partner where he realised that intimacy felt really uncomfortable in his nervous system- and his fight or flight would take over.
We practiced authentic relating (tantra exercises-non sexual) & embodiment exercises where his nervous system grew space to be seen & to be attuned to another.
Meet Turiya
Premium Tantric Intimacy ceremonialist.
Relationship & Sacred Sexuality Expert.
Psychoactive Guide.
Turiya was designed to curate premium intimacy containers- literally. Her human design, personal astrology and lived experience reveal that her purpose is to facilitate a level of intimacy that much of humanity has yet to dare to experience.
She embodies a depth that it is worthy of gold. Her heart code transmissions are FELT in couple’s ready to love wildly. Her boldness & truth telling gives you full permission to share your own. She loves supporting you to be known & feel felt by each other.
With over a decade of therapeutic coaching, ceremonial, and embodied expertise, she leads practices and holds an energetic field where your walls inevitably dissolve. Revealing that your wound bonding was actually the invitation into Sacred Union.
After years of being a serial monogamist and blaming partner after partner for being “the problem”. She took radical accountability and became the partner she once fantasized about. She is in a deeply soulful & erotically charged Sacred Union with her beloved partner, Happy.
She’s real. She’s radiant. And she’s here to facilitate your irresistible connection to each other.
real Life Love Stories
Disconnection >>>Aliveness
Aimee (Analyst)
Aimee was disconnected from her body and unsure about her relationship. Her and her partner did not have sex for over a year.
One somatic touch session with Turiya shifted everything. The next day she shared
“I woke up a new woman. It wasn’t just sexual energy-it was aliveness”
This clarity helped her realize that her relationship wasn’t aligned. She left the relationship and later shared:
“I am now with a man who gets me and who gets all of me sexually”
Shadow Integration |>>>Healthy Relationship
(Regina- Therapist)
Regina had a pattern of attracting the wrong relationships. We integrated the parts in her subconscious that were running the show of who she attracted, unconsciously. Namely, her sense of self-worth.
In her words “Turiya celebrated parts of me I thought were dark & unwanted- and those parts ended up being the parts that called in the life that I am in love with!”"
She now has a husband that she feels adored by and a beautiful baby girl.
This is subconscious reprogramming +somatic experiencing at work.
Resentment |>>> Repair | Intimacy
A couple I was working with entered with
resentment
exhaustion from their stressful schedules
Minimal sex
In an 8 hour medicine ceremony, we facilitated:
radical truth telling about sexual needs
emotional truths they had been avoiding
specific intimacy requests & practice
dancing
nervous system relaxation techniques
They shared
“We cultivated so much love & connection. That connection is our foundation now”
So YES, you can feel that intoxicating early chemistry again— but this time, with emotional safety, communication mastery, and conscious play.
The signature Program of EXTRAORDINARY LOVE
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Building the foundation. Exercises to create the container so that intimacy can thrive. Nervous system stress repair & exercises designed to dissolve the walls. First 2 months.
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The foundation is strong and we move into relational repatterning & subconscious reprogramming. Playful curation & Tantric relating exercises also woven throughout this phase. Months 3 & 4.
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This is the integration phase and anchoring the capacity to remember how to truly enjoy each other through the everyday moments of life. Playful curation of having expanded states of awareness & personal identity as the new norm.
As a busy couple and new parents, we really needed to work through resentments and come back to intimacy that was hard to access. We did a medicine journey with Turiya and Happy, and it was powerful, grounded and incredibly deep. We got to work through important stuff and cultivated so much love and connection. It helped us for a while after, and still does. That connection we cultivated is foundation for us to ground into while we live our busy life. They are like yin and yang and work really well together.”
T & T (Therapist & Consultant)
You Deserve a Premium Intimacy Container
A well curated space just for you & your partner to let go, melt the walls to intimacy & lighten up!
Most relationships won’t survive the relational fractures, but those who do, alchemize the disconnect into a legacy of Sacred Union.
Union is the harmonising of polarities. It is an invitation to go deeper. The relational wounding is embedded in our societal structure, the reality is we are all playing this out-it is historical, familial & structural.
The couple’s who are supported to go deeper in a premium well held container accept the initiation from the ordinary into the extraordinary and create a legacy of lasting love.
This 6 month program is about real transformation that takes time, energy, investment & action. It is not about chasing the highs of practitioner after practitioner & modality after modality without the time & investment required to integrate it into everyday moments together.
You’re a great fit if you are:
a couple who loves each other but feels distant
a couple who has done allot of nervous system repair, and would like to upgrade their erotic relational blueprint to match the safety & trust
overwhelmed by parenting or career pressures
avoiding sex or sex feels pressured
high functioning, and needing a nervous system stress reset
desires to lighten up & embrace spontaneity
ready for results, not years of therapy
prepared to invest the time, energy & action required to sustain a new identity of yourself IN relationship
Get ready for intimacy so palpable- that every touch, laugh, look leaves people wondering if you are newlyweds.
Upgrade your Erotic Relational Blueprint with my Wild & Holy Method .
As your nervous system repairs, you may notice the urgency for sex decreases. This is a normal part of the process. Your nervous system is no longer sourcing sexual desire from activation of the stress response. You are learning to prioritise trust & safety in your relationship over sex being the only source of connection. Such as, after a fight or with dysfunctional relating dynamics.
Your erotic relational blueprint needs time & support to adjust to a slower, more sustainable regulated state of PRESENCE.
Doing so, creates health & wellness for yourself & your relationship.
I teach ancient Egyptian techniques (and Taoist) to cultivate sexual energy and learn to bring it up to the heart. Sexual energy gets circulated throughout the body, not just isolated in the genitals or in more esoteric terms- the lower three chakras.
Couple’s also learn how to create polarity and play with dynamic tension from a conscious place of awareness.
This is a more advanced part of the program for couple’s who are ready to integrate the Shadow aspects, dissolve sexual shame & play out loud with their fantasies.
It requires the foundational aspects of safety, love, respect & nervous system regulation to be established first. Such as in the first two phases of the Extraordianry Relationships program.
Example:
In my own relationship that is rooted in safety & trust, we will bring forward our fantasies and shadow aspects to dissolve and be integrated in our love making. Through role playing, archetypal embodiment, cultivating novelty & risk consciously, Kama Sutra sexual positions & breath/energy practices that restore a sustainable & sacred relationship with sexuality.
These practices go back to the Sacred Sexual Priestesses of the temple of Isis and were enacted by initiated Priestesses- I am an initiated Priestess of this sacred lineage.
Curious?
Book a consult & assess readiness.
Rewrite the entire script of how sexy longterm love
Now Imagine This…
You walk into another dinner party-same people (except for a few new faces), same Friday night- BUT, the energy between you is palpable..
You brush past each other playfully. You laugh in ways your friends haven’t heard in months.
Your eyes linger..
Your touch is warm, confident , sensual.
Your friend grabs your arm and pulls you out of earshot.
“What’s up with you two, did you just come back from vacation or something?”
You smile with a smirk and continue nibbling on your appetiser, walking away.
Later in the evening, people start asking..
“Where did they disappear to?”
Someone gestures to the noises coming from the bathroom- laughter, kissing, touching.
You just couldn’t wait until you got home.
Your friend rolls her eyes, but secretly desires to have that connection with her husband.
This is what emotional safety, nervous system stress repair & playful intimacy techniques create.
And it looks sooo good on you.
I know who you are, you secretly LOVE a great love story AND you struggle to believe that it can be true.
You are ready to give up the “strategy” that nothing is working-therapy, psychedelic ceremonies, self-help books, workshops- and actually invest in the creation of a new sustainable identity of yourself in your relationship.
Connect to discover HOW
